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I Wanna Win His/Her Heart. But How? Thursday, 22 November 2012 @ 04:26 Hi. S H A L O M Today I would like to be 'doktor cinta'. For the first time ever. There's a few people that asked me via Facebook, I wanted to win her heart, but how? I'm not that brave to express my feelings. This is not an easy matter but I tried to tell them this and that. Finally I'm bored so I wanna post this. Perhaps some of you who were stuck in the same situation would likely read this and take these steps. Start with a simple 'Hi!' A simple 'hi!' will lead to million meanings. Wether you want to be friends, make fun of him/her or it's just the beginning of expressing how you feel about him/her. If you are too shy, just drop it accidentally. Like you 'accidentally' step on his/her foot and just say 'sorry.'. If you guys meet each other again, just try to talk to him/her. Apologies again and ask his/her name. That's simple but it's just an example where you can find it very ridiculous yet easy to do. P/S: If you guys haven't meet yet after the 'accident', try to search for his/her friends and ask about him/her. Yes, ridiculous and close to insane. But if it works, that may lead to let's-be-friends situation! Try to talk If you two were not-so-close friends, try to approach him/her and try to be closer to them. Talk to them. Don't ask about craps. Never ask about: His/her past. For example: "I heard you and her were in a relationship but you two broke up. Tell me about that." It will ruin the conversation. Especially if him/her were sensitive. His/her family. While you were madly in a conversation, never involve your or his/her family. For example: "Yeah, my sister got that and her cat died last week." That's so spoil. His/her private stuffs. If you are a boy, don't ask her this: "Hey, what underwear brand did you wear?" That's very embarassing. You know, girls are shy when they talk about something very private. If those happens, you should just put any stuffs up. Just change the topic right away. Make it more and more interesting so him/her will forget the spoiled question you just asked. Bring interesting topics to your conversation People hate uninteresting topics. That will lead them to ignore you overtime if you still did it over and over again. Ask what's him/her favourites. After you ask, tell him/her your own favourite. And then continue on talking about that. But never ever did it too long. After a few moments, just change the topic. Ask him/her again about themselves. The details about them. People love to tell stories about themselves. Unless the people you are talking to is a low-profiled people. If they are, try to think about another topic. A plan before you go and talk to him/her would help! Be who you are You don't have to change because of a boy/girl. Just be the way you are. If you are cheerful, be cheerful. Don't be fake in front of him/her. People will hate that if they know you are being fake around them. Again, ignorance will happen between the two of you. That's very dangerous. Dress well in front of him/her Well-dressed when you meet them is very very very important because you're judged not only in your heart, but the way you styled. If you're clumsy, people will think that you stinks so much. For girls, I recommend you to wear and use these: Dress, if you are comfortable with it. It is okay to wear a simple yet neat tee.( A jacket would help to finish your style! I love denim long-armed jackets.) Shorts. But I recommend you to wear jeans. Because sometimes boys gets annoyed when they saw girls with shorts. That's quite dangerous. Your legs are their temptation! Sandal. That will be very comfortable. Or shoes, if you think it is okay with the boy you are about to meet. Necklace Bracelet Let your hair untied or tie them. Make sure it is neat. Don't be like a gorilla if you don't want to lose them. And for the boys, you should wear and use these: Simple tee. If you want to wear jackets, it is okay, too! Jeans. Or probably shorts. But jeans would be better. And the jeans. Please never let it be tight. Girls hate that. Shoes. Sandals would be okay too! Bracelets. Let your hair neat. I like boys who has the Korean-boys-hair-style. Most importantly, wear comfortable clothes. Plan Make a plan, if you want. Write about what you should wear, what should you say when you meet him/her, what topic you should bring up. So when you meet him/her, you won't be out of ideas of what to say. If they has no special feelings for you Don't worry. There's still millions of fishes in the sea. If you still have feelings for him/her, try your best to stay strong. You could still find your Romeo/Juliet. This is what I've experienced ever since my first crush. I hope this could help you. :) 0 Comments: Post a Comment older post ► ◄ newer post	Home About Stuff eMail I'm not the prettiest, but you know what? I'm fabulous. Hardcore EXO fangirl. 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I Wanna Win His/Her Heart. But How?

Thursday, 22 November 2012 @ 04:26

Hi.

S H A L O M

Today I would like to be 'doktor cinta'. For the first time ever. There's a few people that asked me via Facebook, I wanted to win her heart, but how? I'm not that brave to express my feelings. This is not an easy matter but I tried to tell them this and that. Finally I'm bored so I wanna post this. Perhaps some of you who were stuck in the same situation would likely read this and take these steps.

Start with a simple 'Hi!'

A simple 'hi!' will lead to million meanings. Wether you want to be friends, make fun of him/her or it's just the beginning of expressing how you feel about him/her. If you are too shy, just drop it accidentally. Like you 'accidentally' step on his/her foot and just say 'sorry.'. If you guys meet each other again, just try to talk to him/her. Apologies again and ask his/her name. That's simple but it's just an example where you can find it very ridiculous yet easy to do. P/S: If you guys haven't meet yet after the 'accident', try to search for his/her friends and ask about him/her. Yes, ridiculous and close to insane. But if it works, that may lead to let's-be-friends situation!

Try to talk

If you two were not-so-close friends, try to approach him/her and try to be closer to them. Talk to them. Don't ask about craps. Never ask about:

His/her past. For example: "I heard you and her were in a relationship but you two broke up. Tell me about that." It will ruin the conversation. Especially if him/her were sensitive.
His/her family. While you were madly in a conversation, never involve your or his/her family. For example: "Yeah, my sister got that and her cat died last week." That's so spoil.
His/her private stuffs. If you are a boy, don't ask her this: "Hey, what underwear brand did you wear?" That's very embarassing. You know, girls are shy when they talk about something very private.

If those happens, you should just put any stuffs up. Just change the topic right away. Make it more and more interesting so him/her will forget the spoiled question you just asked.

Bring interesting topics to your conversation

People hate uninteresting topics. That will lead them to ignore you overtime if you still did it over and over again. Ask what's him/her favourites. After you ask, tell him/her your own favourite. And then continue on talking about that. But never ever did it too long. After a few moments, just change the topic. Ask him/her again about themselves. The details about them. People love to tell stories about themselves. Unless the people you are talking to is a low-profiled people. If they are, try to think about another topic. A plan before you go and talk to him/her would help!

Be who you are

You don't have to change because of a boy/girl. Just be the way you are. If you are cheerful, be cheerful. Don't be fake in front of him/her. People will hate that if they know you are being fake around them. Again, ignorance will happen between the two of you. That's very dangerous.

Dress well in front of him/her

Well-dressed when you meet them is very very very important because you're judged not only in your heart, but the way you styled. If you're clumsy, people will think that you stinks so much. For girls, I recommend you to wear and use these:

Dress, if you are comfortable with it. It is okay to wear a simple yet neat tee.( A jacket would help to finish your style! I love denim long-armed jackets.)
Shorts. But I recommend you to wear jeans. Because sometimes boys gets annoyed when they saw girls with shorts. That's quite dangerous. Your legs are their temptation!
Sandal. That will be very comfortable. Or shoes, if you think it is okay with the boy you are about to meet.
Necklace
Bracelet
Let your hair untied or tie them. Make sure it is neat. Don't be like a gorilla if you don't want to lose them.

And for the boys, you should wear and use these:

Simple tee. If you want to wear jackets, it is okay, too!
Jeans. Or probably shorts. But jeans would be better. And the jeans. Please never let it be tight. Girls hate that.
Shoes. Sandals would be okay too!
Bracelets.
Let your hair neat. I like boys who has the Korean-boys-hair-style.

Most importantly, wear comfortable clothes.

Plan

Make a plan, if you want. Write about what you should wear, what should you say when you meet him/her, what topic you should bring up. So when you meet him/her, you won't be out of ideas of what to say.

If they has no special feelings for you

Don't worry. There's still millions of fishes in the sea. If you still have feelings for him/her, try your best to stay strong. You could still find your Romeo/Juliet.

This is what I've experienced ever since my first crush. I hope this could help you. :)

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